It is not charming to be Mama’s little treasure too long
Somewhere around the age of six Well, the first time is the thoughts to leave home. To escape and become their own ruler. Both children have packed small backpacks and announced that it must now be enough.
Once the thought is confirmed, it never leaves completely, but remembers the teenagers to peak around 20.
You have been a legal age for a few years and it is time to take responsibility. Stand alone, find your own identity. Even crown and the cent.
In the midst of all euphoria it can be very unpleasant, at least if the home environment has been safe. Remember: tears and the overwhelming feeling of being lonely in the world. Saying goodbye to Dad who followed Ikea and sewn the furniture together. And then, just like that, the time was like someone’s obvious priority.
Moving back home would have been unthinkable – now I was on the way. To something else. Away from his hometown, which was not mine, had never been.
Clara Cronhielm is 23And loves to live with her parents, she writes in the Aftonbladet culture.
Maybe on the other hand she also does a way to possess her story. To do something you have to do and make it sound like a life choice.
Instead of saying: “I can’t do it, I don’t stand out, Mom? Help,” The story will be: I love it!
23-year-olds belong to the youngest in the category, which is usually called young adults.
I don’t know, but something tells me that today’s 23-year-olds are younger than I was. Or it is only the little uncle that wants to explain how things were “in my time”.
Of course my children will always find an open door, between the accommodation, between ground hearts. But my highest wish is: red itself. Being your own.
And about them Would I like to live at home as 23-year-olds, would I perhaps wonder what I am doing wrong? Sometimes it stops being charming to be “Mom’s Little Boy” and directly by becoming socially unacceptable.
But where should they live, the young people?
A rental price in the big city means in a row for decades. Aftonbladet told us Amanda Brohman Who lived second -hand for six years. To say the least, a disturbing carousel for those who want to get Momentum.
And loneliness, what should we do about it?
Cronhielm writes that the long course is a reason for loneliness. And to a certain extent, some social layers, it is certainly true. But there are still many people with jobs that require physical presence. (Fortunately for the cash register in the self -cania community!).
I understand that it can be gloomy to hold in their narrow student room with a view of brown beige apartment houses and a few devastating birches such as the nearest “forest”.
But it is also possible to feel alone in company. In addition to a pure physical condition, loneliness can also be emotional, social and existential – according to the Public Health Authority and I sign.
The void and the feeling Insulation can be clear in the company of other people. A family is not the same as you can feel.
Cronhielm writes: “Maybe it’s not a step back to stay or return home, but a step on the side, away from the individualistic path that is presented for us. A step in a different way to exist next to each other in the world”.
Nice words of course.
My house exists for my children for the rest of my life, but I wish them something different and I put a best before the day for the mother service.
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